Tuesday, May 5, 2009

I miss having a BFF.

I do not have a BFF, and I am sad about this. My dear sweet friend Sara was one of the closest friends I have ever had, but 3 years ago she moved, a long, long way away. For those of you who watch Grey's Anatomy, she was my person. It really sucks when your person moves away.

Today I had a very bad day, the kind of day where you need your person. You need them to listen, to be there to give a hug, to make you laugh, to take you to your favorite Thai restaurant, split some condom rolls with you, and talk until your jaw hurts. (Sara, if your reading this, when your back in town, we need to get some condom rolls) For those of you who are totally grossed out, that is just Sara's description for spring rolls, but it makes me laugh, that's why she is my person.

I guess I am just feeling sorry for myself tonight, but I really miss having a BFF.


Sara lacing me up in my wedding dress.

Sara and I

I miss you Sara, can't wait to see you in June!

2 comments:

Caroline said...

Candy
I struggled with this a lot during college. My best friend was going in to a strange place in her life and we weren't connected at the time like we use to be. I just had to pray. I had some really hard days where I needed a best friend, but just didn't have that connection.

I am not sure if I wasn't in the right place in life, or God was doing something in my life where I didn't need the "distraction", but he has brought me three best friends today. All of them I knew during college. My first best friend I talked about is back on track and I am now great friends with her older sister (the one who is planing on joining MOPS in the fall) and another friend who was a customer at the coffee shop I worked out.
God has a plan, so just hang in there. And I wont get "condom rolls" with you, but I love the money bags at the Thai restaurant :)
Also if you get this, I am going to met my friend keri at Barnes and Noble for some coffee at 9:20, you should come. She is the one who is joining MOPS, so it would be good for her to met someone else.
Just come if you can, you can facebook me or just show up at 9:20.

Liz Harrell said...

I have my best friend close by,and am so thankful for it! Hope the two of you have a wonderful time together soon!

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